Living alone need not to be a dreadful experience. It can be a desirable, productive and legitimate alternative.
The experience of loneliness has little to do with age, sex, income or occupation. It does however have anything to do with attitudes toward, and sometimes an obsessive need for a romance or marital relationship.
1. Don't be afraid to live alone. Don't be afraid of what others will think. Being single doesn't mean theres's something wrong with you; or that you're some kind of freak. Don't be afraid that you won't be able to take care of yourself financially.
Many people fear that they’ll be overwhelmed by loneliness, anxiety, or depression, and that they won't be able to survive these emotions.
2. Don't be afraid of your own thoughts and feelings. You will soon find that you can live alone, support and take care of yourself and discover that it is very liberating experience.
You'll soon learn practical and domestic chores, like shopping, cooking, cleaning. Men may not know how to do this things initially, but they can learn. They should read books, talk to friends, take classes - anything to get some training.
Woman can learn to take care of a car just as they learn complicated housekeeping. But they need encouragement to learn things they don't know.
3. Be good to yourself. Create a relationship with yourself that is as loving as a relationship with another person. This involves trying to live in a place that you feel reflects your tastes.
It means cooking yourself the meals you would cook for someone else. It means doing what interests you, as if you were living with someone and wanted the relationship to be stimulating. This is reality and Facts about life.

This is a really great and interesting topic, I've been reading bout this and this one make sense to those who are participating. This a great idea, and now I’m definitely going to have to look at doing the same thing. It’s a nice way to encourage everyone and help out. Well done!
ReplyDeleteThis is a great post Janey! That's how we can demonstrate love for ourselves. If we want to be loved, we must learn first to take care of our selves - physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual.
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Julliene: thanks for appreciating, I will.
ReplyDeleteAries: Thanks, for me this is the best way of loving...